The marriage in Japan
This ceremony, in charge of the Shinto priest or Buddhist monk, is very similar; the difference is in the forms that exist in each religion. First enter the guests and the bride and groom, family then boyfriends and finally, the master of ceremony, and after a ritual of purification begins the ceremony. The bride and groom exchange a rosary, Japanese or juzu. Formerly did not ring; today incorporates this formality and after give the juzu, exchanged rings. Then comes the main time of ceremony, it is to make sake to seal the Union of the couple. This ritual is known with the name of san san kudo. San san kudo means "tres-tres - nine"; three represents heaven, Earth and human being. The odd number three is indivisible and nine is the maximum of the odd number. Of this ritual manifests the desire for maximum joy and eternal Union of the new couple, for which prepares a series of tasitas mounted Japanese sakazuki, large, medium and small one over another, and in a certain order bride and groom drink sake. Finished this ritual, the couple expresses his word oath, can perform it together or separately. Express in words with their families their commitment to Union. Then the master of ceremony closes with his words and thus terminate the religious ceremony is given. Then comes the feast, Hirou no Gui, where there is the Union of the couple together with their families, friends, neighbors, co-workers. Invites the social world of the newlyweds to participate and share this Union. Here is where the bride and groom are changed its Japanese traditional clothing and appear white dress to the bride and groom tailcoat. And just as in the West, honeymoon is a ritual which is also part of the wedding. 
In the current Japan the average age of couples who are married is thirty years and 70% of all couples married in this way. There are two types of marriages in Japan: concluded under the forms of religion Shintōist and type West. However, in recent years Western-style marriage was imposing. It has become fashionable because it has a meaning of modernity among the groom young. The ceremony is much more attractive and allows the bride wearing the white dress that fascinates the Japanese. A marriage of Western style is more or less similar to a marriage of this kind anywhere else in the world. But it is almost similar in appearance only. Bride dressed in white, the tailcoat, groom wedding ceremony is performed and then held the link with a party at a local classrooms. But until there come the similarities, in essence the ceremony is performed under the Customs Japanese and local for the appearance tastes s and Japanese formalities and does not seem almost to nothing to a wedding in Latin America. In principle the wedding ceremony is not performed in a chapel, not, but at a local hotel or a venue for weddings, the design of a Christian, with the main ingredients of a church, stained glass, lectern, organ and benches for the guests, decorated with flowers and a central hallway called "the path of the Virgin" where the bride will look her dress Chapel. In some cases there is a wedding ceremony. But the person who held the ceremony is not a priest or pastor of a church. It is an employee of the hotel and/or to give more enhancement hires a foreigner, is more "in". In other cases there is a rite of marriage, then the bride and groom led by a master of ceremonies, perform the Act of delivery of the rings, make commitment to public of love and the scene all await, Kiss the bride and groom. After the marriage Rite passes a Hall to celebrate the marriage. Luxuriously decorated, pink, blue, green and gold, according to requested and tastes. In the central part and view all guests feel the betrothed couple. Each guest has a table named in the respective seat separated. And it is that each guest has received an invitation two months earlier and has accepted the invitation. It is not possible and it is inadmissible that last minute guests, everything is prepared with the proper anticipation and precautions. Each guest that has agreed to join the celebration has to carry a certain amount of money, according to the local, the place and several indicators in a special envelope decorated for the occasion that the Japanese are familiar, is usually between 10,000 to 30,000 yen. The envelope must be wrapped in turn in a handkerchief appropriate and delivered to the entrance hall of receptions, usually with a message of greeting to the groom. They are small details that are essential for Japanese coexistence. Average cost of a marriage in a Tokyo hotel ranges between 2 million and half to three million and a half yen, includes ceremony, dinner, photos, videos, and services. 
Detail table decorated in a marriage Then comes a very tight schedule that includes toast, cut the cake, the session photos, words of the most important guests, friends of the family, the head of the boyfriend, fellow study, etc. In the central part there will be a screen that trasmitirán videos and photos of the spouses, with suitable background music and lights. Party by calling in some way has a lot of multimedia entertainment. And sometime girlfriend to thank your parents or recall his life, shedder some tears, is also a vital part of the ceremony, the tears of joy and nostalgia. For every occasion the bride and groom are changed dress twice or three times. Passing from the dress of the wedding ceremony, to formal holiday costume until a Japanese kimono. The most important parts will have background music and special lights to highlight the dresses of the bride or the decor. According to the English writer Peter Tasker ("Japan blogging") is pure Kabuki, Japanese wedding ceremony a scenographic representation of Japanese customs. And the liking for appearances, because in truth that is already getting married couple weeks has been married before, by mail in most cases or with a simple formality in the municipality, where one puts his label identification, "inkan", and accepts the marital Alliance. The ceremony at the hotel is only to fulfil the social rite. And at the end of the afternoon filled with so many joys and emotions, when you check out each guest receives a bag with the logo of the hotel with a gift of appreciation, something very Japanese, return the attentions. 
